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LOVE LETTER TO VALUBERTI

We first saw Valuberti, a small borgo (hamlet) 16 kilometers outside Castiglion Fiorentino, Provincia d’Arezzo, Regione Toscana, 25 years ago.  I had wanted to do something special for my 50th birthday, and spending the month of August in Tuscany was my idea of perfect.  We were living in San Francisco at the time, and a column in the San Francisco Sunday Chronicle called “Follow the Reader” raved about Alda Fantina’s house at Valuberti.  Inquiries were faxed (it was 1997).  It was available, and the rest is history.

Every year thereafter, when deciding where to vacation, we just kept going back to Valuberti, never wanting to return to our American lives or livelihoods.  When a house became available, we jumped on it, and on June 4, 2001, we bought a small, abandoned house next to Alda’s.  It had no plumbing, the suggestion of an electrical system, a ground floor formerly occupied by turkeys and rabbits, and an upper floor full of pigeon droppings—veritable stalagmites of pigeon poop.  My husband, the architect-optimist, thought he could make it habitable, and we began an 18-month renovation from the States.  We started with a well, moved on to replacing the stone roof and rotted beams, installing a steel cord around the perimeter to meet seismic code requirements, laying a brick floor downstairs and a chestnut floor upstairs, choosing fixtures and tiling two baths, and putting in the nicest kitchen I’ve ever called my own.  The house was finished in October of 2003 and had a siren call loud enough to travel across the Mediterranean, over the Atlantic, and then cross-continental to the West Coast.  It was irresistible.  We decided to retire early and ex-pat outta Dodge.

We moved into our house with our cockatiel Gaston, elderly cat Aldo Kitty, orchid collection, and San Francisco rose (all with veterinarian certificates and USDA permits) on June 2, 2004.  We christened the house La Casa della Luna Piena, because there was a full moon when we bought it and a full moon when we moved into it.  

There were some setbacks in paradise.  The neighbor’s dog entered the house and killed Gaston before our container with his cage arrived.  My father, who was diagnosed with third stage lung cancer in August of that first year came to visit; his lung collapsed and he had to be hospitalized in Arezzo for 10 days before we could fly him home to New Jersey on a Lear jet air ambulance.  He died on November 7, 2004, but he got to see Valuberti and he loved it.  Our contractor’s idea of bringing in some soil to level the rear yard turned out to involve heavy clay.  We had to use a jack hammer to put in the landscaping and the garden, because the layer of soil that wasn’t the imported clay was only a few inches deep before you hit solid rock.  Aldo declined and needed to be hydrated intravenously daily, which meant we took separate vacations those first years.  There was no WiFi, just a dial-up connection via our fixed line phone, so it was “Oh, please God, no!” if someone sent us a photo.  The first winter it snowed a lot and we ran out of firewood.  Our immediate neighbors spoke no English and our Italian was molto scarso.  It was a huge change.

But nonetheless, it was a thrilling adventure, radically different, challenging, and beautiful.  We improved our Italian and made friends.  We planted a big vegetable garden and enjoyed Kilometer Zero.  We built a pergola and planted grapes over the terrace.  We hardscaped the rear patio and planted climbing roses, wisteria, jasmine, four cypress, five kinds of lavender, an herb garden, an olive tree, cardoons, Russian sage, a hedge, four bush roses, hydrangeas, and rosmarino rampicante.  We got to know where the weekly markets took place, and we used the Slow Food Guide Italy to take us to a new town each Sunday for lunch.

We grew to love our new life, and Valuberti became our very own little piece of Tuscany.   

Then in June of 2006, three of the eight houses at the end of the borgo were sold to an Italian who embarked on a three-year construction project to create an agriturismo.  The delicate balance between the deep peace and the quotidian inconvenience of living in a remote settlement tipped in favor of nostalgia for the benefits that city living offers.  On July 1, 2009, we moved to Berlin.  But our ties to the house we saved, the timeless landscape, the unique international roster of seasonal and permanent inhabitants, and the wonderful friends we made were strong, so strong that we continued to spend every spring and fall at Valuberti, enjoying it as a luxurious vacation house. 

After 18 years of knowing and loving this house as if it were our first-born, we decided it was time to let go.  And on July 26, 2022, we sold it to a wonderful American woman who loves it as much as we do.  She is the buyer we were waiting for, and La Casa della Luna Piena is the house she was looking for.  We are sooooo happy to have left this special place in her capable, loving hands.  

Here are the photos I took of the house, our garden and orchard, and the borgo on our last day—August 6, 2022--at Valuberti.  Nothing posed; warts and all, all packed up and ready to go.

The kitchen and pizza oven.

 

 

 

The downstairs guest bath with Jacuzzi tub for two.

The sky-lit, two-story atrium connecting the ground and first floors.



The cantina and storage room.  There is a Murphy bed built into the cabinetry.




The upstairs master bath with walk-in shower.

The living room with custom-made full moon fireplace mantle and napping husband.




The master bedroom.


The exterior.  The ox yoke hung over my parents' garage in New Jersey.

 






The rear garden and herb garden.




To the former vegetable garden via the stone steps Steve built, the orchard, Steve's asparagus patch, and the resting place of our pets under a very old pear tree.




The surroundings and the road home.

Arrivederci, Valuberti! We’ll always love you and we'll miss you, but it’s time to ride off into the sunset.  There is someone new to cherish you now.

Keep it real!

Marilyn

 

Comments

  1. So glad we had the pleasure of having a wonderful Farm to table dinner at Valuberti. Better to have loved and moved on than to never have had. Will send you private text re: our plans for Sicily. ❌⭕️❌⭕️

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  2. It's hard to let go but so freeing. It's beautiful you guys. We sold Trillium a year ago. At our age we would rather travel than take care of two places. Plus owning more than one place in the world we live in now, is a bit much. Miss the both of you. Good for you!

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    1. We're on the same wavelength. Down to 2 dishwashers; going for 1!

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  3. Beautiful! Thanks for the photo memories!💕

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    1. Remember when you chauffeured us everywhere when you visited because our CA driving licenses had expired and we didn't have Italian ones yet? You were great!

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  4. Un luogo fiabesco. Siete stati coraggiosi a comprare questa casa e a renderla così meravigliosa, e ancora più coraggiosi a venderla. Siete ammirevoli, forti, uniti e molto in gamba. Bacioni palermitani😘😘😍

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    1. Anche piu' coraggiosi a comprare un appartamento a Palermo! :-)

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  5. What a beautiful love letter and lovely photographic memories...I admire your courage to embrace change and to listen to the flow of life...

    Stufen (by Hermann Hesse) (apologies, couldn't find a good English translation)

    Wie jede Blüte welkt und jede Jugend
    Dem Alter weicht, blüht jede Lebensstufe,
    Blüht jede Weisheit auch und jede Tugend
    Zu ihrer Zeit und darf nicht ewig dauern.
    Es muß das Herz bei jedem Lebensrufe
    Bereit zum Abschied sein und Neubeginne,
    Um sich in Tapferkeit und ohne Trauern
    In andre, neue Bindungen zu geben.
    Und jedem Anfang wohnt ein Zauber inne,
    Der uns beschützt und der uns hilft, zu leben.

    Wir sollen heiter Raum um Raum durchschreiten,
    An keinem wie an einer Heimat hängen,
    Der Weltgeist will nicht fesseln uns und engen,
    Er will uns Stuf´ um Stufe heben, weiten.
    Kaum sind wir heimisch einem Lebenskreise
    Und traulich eingewohnt, so droht Erschlaffen;
    Nur wer bereit zu Aufbruch ist und Reise,
    Mag lähmender Gewöhnung sich entraffen.

    Es wird vielleicht auch noch die Todesstunde
    Uns neuen Räumen jung entgegen senden,
    Des Lebens Ruf an uns wird niemals enden,
    Wohlan denn, Herz, nimm Abschied und gesunde!

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    1. I adored reading this and looking at all the photos. I’m sorry I never got to see your home. It was created with such love and taste. What brilliant memories you have!

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    2. Dieses Gedicht passt so gut zu unseren Gefühlen über das Verlassen und Beginnen. Danke, HB! (Und wir wissen wer du bist! :-)

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  6. So grateful that Lil Mama, Meriwether and I all got to visit this magical place and to see it at various stages of completion. You and Steve made your artistic vision real and made your friends very, very happy. I will always treasure the memories (and photographs, fortunately) from these good times! I hope the new owner is very, very happy there.

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    1. She loves it! And the best part, we've started a friendship. That doesn't happen every day.

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  7. Thank you Marilyn and Steve; we loved our long ago visit and seeing these beautiful photos.

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  8. Dearest Marilyn and Steve, Oh my what an exquisite love letter and oh so many beautiful memories. When we sol our home in Pearl River after 40 yrs my heart was full knowing the family that bought 8t would love it as we did. We have so many wonderful chapters in our lives and we hope you enjoy this new adventure.
    I fondly remember our visit to Tuscany and our awesome Christmas in Germany, mostly I am grateful for the love you share with me and my family. Happiest of Birthdays to both of you,enjoy!!!!!!

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    1. Thank you, my favorite cousin in the whole wide world. And don't forget: we have Como to look forward to!

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  9. wowser, yewsguys havea touch......

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  10. Some would say we are touched. As in nuts!

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  11. i love your energy and vibe, almost felt a bit emotional reading the love letter!
    What a beautiful place, i admire your courage to move on! ❤️

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  12. What a wonderful post! It was (and still is) a beautiful home and we loved visiting you there! I remember making a delicious sauce with Steve one night for dinner. Onwards and upwards! Very happy Valuberti will have a new owner who loves her as much as you both did! x

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    1. And you were a real trooper, what with your broken foot!

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